this blog is a biphobia-free zone

asynca:

here are things you won’t find on my blog:

• me telling bisexual folks what language they’re allowed to use to describe themselves
• me telling bisexual folks they can’t say “wow I’m gay” when they see a hot same or similar-gendered person, or use ‘gay’ as a shorthand for their same-gender attraction whenever they feel it’s appropriate
• me acting like lesbians are ‘more pure’ queer folks than bisexual folks
• me acting like bisexual folks in other-gendered relationships aren’t oppressed
• me acting like bisexual people can ‘choose’ what gendered person they fall for so have some magical way of choosing not to fall for same- or similar-gendered people
• me in any way presuming to tell bisexual folks what they are or aren’t, what they can and can’t do, or anything about their own sexuality and oppression
• me acting like there are Special Lesbian Words that bi women are not allowed access to
• me acting like bisexual wlw are ‘lesbians lite’
• me policing bisexual folks in any way at all